Farm labourer to the Secretary- A true
Inspiring story
Two days before on 25th Jan 2017, I traveled from Pune to solapur along with my
colleagues.I was seated with a person with whom I started to discuss about
various issues belongs to the life .I used a case history method to understand the personality of my colleague
who was seated beside me.I am trying to
interpret his personality from the
glasses of psychoanalysis.
I am writing
about a boy , whose village is situated
near the spiritual place Pandharpur. He
was very naughty from the early
childhood.He lost the shadow of his father when he was 2 years old. According to Piaget,
a child psychologist Birth to 2 years is the stage of sensory motor
development so naturally he lost the
memories of his father.Obiviously this
child was strongly attached with the mother. Mother took all the
responsibilitis of the family.Child learned the values from the mother like self esteem,self concept,independence,positivity,well-adjustment,prosocial
approach,social responsibilities and so many other traits from the mother.At the
age of 10 for giving the support to mother ,he started to work in the wine shop
as a laborer.He could not get a social
approval .He thought that he was rejected by the society.He was trying to
search himself but could not get the proper answer but coincidentally one teacher
came in his life and she understood the real potentials of this boy.After 7th
std that teacher brought this child to pune for giving the admission in ‘Pune
Vidyarthi Gruha ‘ a renown educational
institute . It was the new journey of his life but still his future was in a
dark.He got food, shelter and education in this institute.It was the new
journey of his life. A socially and economically deprived child learned so many things in pune. Gradually he
focused on the study and implemented a thoughts of mahatma Phule in his brain
that education is the solution for all the problems.After passing the 10th
exam he preferred a part time job as a
office boy .Simultaneously he was studying in
B.Com. He was doing a hard work
with sincerity and honesty so he was promoted on the position of Junior clerk and
accountant .It was 1996 his family
members and relatives were talking about his marriage and were searching a girl
for his marriage.At last he selected a marriage proposal which was suggestd by
the relatives.After the marriage due to the politics he had given a order of
transfer from pune to nashik but he decided to work in Pune so he preferred to resign
and searched a new job in SSPM college as lecturer in M.C.V.C Dept.To become a teacher was his long term
goal because in his school age he used
to teach to the junior students of hostel.so he accepted this job.
Struggle is the
part of his life so after getting the job of teacher also he had to face the
challenges of politics in SSPM .Fifteen years he worked there on half salary
but giving his 100% contribution to the institute.For a family responsibilities
he started to work with C.A .and worked as a supervisor,estate agent and some small jobs.Due to the struggle and challenges
he become a tough minded personality.Since 1996 to 2016 he did so many jobs for
the financial stability but learned so
many practical things from the society.Meanwhile from the school age ,he worked very honestly with the Pune
Vidyarthi Gruha (PVG).Just because of his contribution to the Institute and
honesty he has given the responsibilities of secretary in PVG.Now he is the
policy maker and decision maker of several schools and engineering colleges of
PVG.
A boy who was selling the wine at wine shop in childhood
phase now become the secretary of one renown institute of maharashtra just
because of environment which he got from the secondary school.He has a
high level ofsocial and emotional
intelligence.Now he is really a father of so many socially ,emotionally and
financially deprived students. People
gather around him to listen when he talks about any issue .Really he is the
Guide ,Philosopher and Friend for everyone.
By reading
this Article curiosity might have been arised in your mind about knowing his
name.Friends he is none other than Rajendra kamble a secretary of PVG,Pune.I
strongly believe that miracles do happen only when human spirit takes over .I
mean self realization is the base of success and happiness.
Written by
D.Chabukswar
Psychological Counsellor and Therapiest.
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